Monday, May 31, 2021

Awwरत : Menstruation Matters!

 Why don’t we call menstruation by its name? 

Menstruation surely opened up a discussion which for long time was kept discreet and hush-hush. Negative taboos condition force  us to understand menstrual function as something to be hidden, something shameful. And by not naming a thing, we reinforce the idea that the thing should not be named. 

Every month, millions of adolescent girls around the world face  pain, discomfort, shame, anxiety, and isolation when their menstrual period arrives. In many low-income and middle-income countries, access to sanitary products such as pads, tampons, or cups is limited, and girls often resort to using proxy materials such as mud, leaves, or animal skins to try to absorb the menstrual flow. Appropriate and hygienic infrastructure—including waste disposal mechanisms, soap and water for washing, and safe, private, and accessible toilets—is rarely available or sustainable. This absence of facilities, coupled with the shame and fear of exposing their menstruation, mean that many adolescent girls are forced to miss there school during their period; consequently, in many rural resource-poor settings, adolescent girls who are already disadvantaged by social norms miss  their education opportunities. And this is not confined to developing countries—a recent study by Plan International UK also reported menstrual-related school absences. One in ten girls aged 14–21 years in the UK can't regularly afford menstrual products, forcing some to stay home from school, and 42% have resorted to using makeshift sanitary ware such as paper and socks.

However, period poverty is a broader issue than one of economy. Because of entrenched stigma and taboos, menstruation is rarely discussed in families or schools, and  often arrives suddenly to girls with little or no knowledge of what is happening. . In many communities, menstruating girls and women are still banned from kitchens, crop fields, or places of worship.

For most girls, management of menstrual pain is a key concern, yet little sympathy or attention is given to those facing this regular pain, let alone management of irregular or pathological periods. In the UK, nearly 80% of adolescent girls have experienced concerning menstrual symptoms (such as unusually heavy or irregular bleeding) but hadn't consulted a health professional; 27% of those said they were too embarrassed to discuss the topic. The rooted silence surrounding periods is putting lives at risk.

Menstruation is a normal and regular event in every healthy adolescent girl's life. Yet drastic changes are needed to encourage positive social norms and ultimately enact behavioural change. Global Menstrual Hygiene Day on May 28, led by WASH United and supported by more than 400 organisations globally, aims to achieve that. This year, the focus is on empowerment.

Adolescent girls need the support of their governments to provide adequate infrastructure, access to affordable sanitary products, and gender equity for them to manage their periods. Progress is beginning: Kenya now provides free sanitary pads to girls in education, and Ethiopia has established menstrual hygiene management clubs in schools. In these and other countries, such as India and Pakistan, change is happening because influential ministers, both male and female, are prioritising the needs of menstruating girls and women.

Community leaders, health workers,  teachers and many NGOs came forward  to negate menstrual stigma, and parents and wider family members need to be educated about their cultural traditions and superstitions, which might be unintentionally causing harm to women and girls. But to establish sustainable social change, education is key. All girls and boys must be educated about menstruation and reproductive health to empower them to talk comfortably and candidly about periods and sexual health.

We applaud the increasing efforts worldwide to empower, educate, and engage country leaders, communities, families, and adolescent girls and boys about menstruation, and to highlight the right of women and girls to hygienically manage their periods. Enormous advances have been made in global child and adolescent health, maternal health, and women's rights. Yet the needs of the 300 million women and girls menstruating on any given day remain buried low on the global health agenda, simply because many are too embarrassed for frank discussions about menstruation. It is time to finally abolish the absurd silence and shame that shroud this natural biological event. On the ending note i would like to conclude that Menstruation, a sign of good health, must be normalised, and must be celebrated :) cheers!! 

Devil or देवी?

 Devil or देवी?

The Covid 19 out break is a heart break for the entire world, where the humans are caged at homes and death rates left the stars behind. Suddenly the life has been paralysed because of 'Devil Corona'

On the other hand the fear of disease makes people believe in to worship and this Devil turned into Devi corona where women offer sweets flowers and started to pray in hope that she will protect them from the infection.Don't get surprise with this superstitious act, earlier the chicken pox was also referred as 'Mataji', gender of the disease is already came in the light before it's cure. Meanwhile, corona must be thinking 'APUNICH BHAGWAN HAI'. Though the new birth of so called corona devi has ruined the sign of social distancing or protection using masks.

In many states women's are sitting in a group and busy in chanting the updated version of 'Go corona go' that is ' Jai corona maia'.

Here the question arises 'Is superstition is more impactful than vaccine?'

where these stupidity came from?

According to “PTI” Reports Kollam, June 14 (PTI) As the coronavirus spread causes distress worldwide, a man in Kerala is worshipping the deadly pathogen as a Goddess and praying for the well being of frontline warriors.

"I am worshipping the coronavirus as a goddess and doing daily pujas for the safety and well being of health professionals, police personnel and scientists, who are toiling to discover a vaccine, fire force and media personnel and others.

Many in the social media have questioned his motive, while others have said he was doing it just for publicity and some said it was just superstition.


Anilan, who is against the governments decision to open places of religious worship, including temples, said people can sit in their homes and pray.

"There are 33 crore Hindu gods and I am worshipping the virus as a goddess as part of the fundamental right guaranteed under the Constitution", 


Many parts of Rural India in Bihar, Jharkhand, Uttar Pradesh and West Bengal has seen people worshipping Corona Devi to ward off the pandemic.


Women in parts of Assam have also offered prayers to please Corona Devi, according to media reports.

On the ending note I would like to conclude that follow safety guidelines and precaution which can definitely protect us from disease instead of faith on such creepy superstition.


Sunday, July 26, 2020

बेज़ुबान काग़ज़


एक साधारण सा सफ़ेद काग़ज़ ही तो हूं मैं, कभी कीमती तो कभी रद्दी या किसी के पैरों के नीचे रहता हूं। जब बच्चे मुझे हवाई जहाज बना कर उड़ाते है तो ऐसा लगता है मानों थोड़े ही देर के लिए सही '' दुनिया मुझे अपने सर आंखो पे बिठाने की तैयारियां कर रही है ", पर सच तो यह है की मुझे भी नहीं पता होता है की कहा जा कर गिरूंगा।
अभी मॉनसून है भाईसाहब और लॉक डाउन भी... गली में जल- जमाव की स्थिति में बच्चे तो मुझे नाव बनाकर अपना मन बहला रहें हैं, उनकी छोटी - छोटी खुशी का हिस्सा बन कर मेरे मन को सुकून मिलता है।
कभी नाव, तो कभी हवाई जहाज या जब नसीब अच्छा हुआ तो 'काग़ज़ के फूल' जहां रंग बिरंगे काग़ज़ की भेराइटी है - जैसे, चमकीला, गोल्डन इत्यादी।
स्कूल में डिस्प्ले बोर्ड पर मुझे गुलाब, कमल फूल बना कर बच्चे सजाया करते हैं, फिर क्या?
   कुछ महीनों के बाद धूल की चादर में लिपटे हुए और कोने में पड़े हुए कचरे के ङब्बे में डाल दिए जाते हैं।
 फिर से बच्चे वहीं उमंग और उत्साह के साथ फूल नहीं तो इस बार सितारा बना कर सजाने में लगे हैं, मैं भी कहीं "गोल्डन तो कहीं सिल्वर" सजावट से चमकने के लिए तैयार बैठा हूं, एकदम "selfie ready" थोड़े ही देर के लिए सही "सेलिब्रिटी वाला फिलिंग भी आना लाज़मी है 😎 instagram से लेकर whatsapp के स्टैटस में मैं ही हूँ और वो भी कैप्शन के साथ पर उन्हें क्या पता उनके जाने के बाद फिर से ना हमे कोई देखने वाला होगा और कुछ दिनों के बाद डस्टबीन में ही मेरी जगह होगीं, खैर यह सिलसिला तो चलता रहेगा, आप सभी इस मॉनसून पकौड़े खाइए और मौसम का आनंद लीजिए..
अरे! याद आया, जब गरम पकौड़े को मुझमे लपेट कर परोसा जाता है और कुछ बुद्धजीवि  स्वाद का ज़ायका ले कर मुझे इधर-उधर फेंक कर गंदगी फैला कर चले जाते हैं, मैं चीख़ता हूं, चिल्लाता हूं पर शायद मेरी आवाज़ उनके कानों तक नहीं पहुंची है। काग़ज़ पर लिखावट या सजावट जचती है.. ना की लपटें हुए रोटी या पकौड़े मगर अब किसे समझाना.. मैं भी एक मामूली सा काग़ज़ जो आग में गिरे तो राख और पानी में गिरे तो साफ़..
अब तो अगली बारिश का इंतजार रहेगा जब बच्चे मुझे नाव बनाकर एक छोर से दूसरे छोर जाते देख अपनी बचपन की यादों को संजोएगें।

Sunday, February 2, 2020

Life: Roller Coaster Ride

Life is not easy like Sunday morning. It was just a normal day, as usual I was in hurry for my office and waiting for the metro. Then my eyes went on 6 years old kid who was busy in playing game in his mobile phone, while the other passengers were waiting for their destination, I was also in the same lot.
I saw that the kid he is very relaxed carefree and far away from chaos.
Though I was a regular commuter with bundle of responsibilities,his innocence and adorable smile was a stress buster for me. But after some time his mother scolded the little kid for using mobile and finally she took away from. Then he look steadily at me for a long and came to me with milli fluent voice and asked for my phone and said I will recite a poem and you have to give your phone to me.
His innocent behavior pleased my eyes,then I heard the announcement for the next destinations
After when I came out from the metro station, I saw a child was sleeping under subconscious visualisation. This is how the street life in metropolitan cities are. That time I realize that what life is and yet most of time we fail to notice them or loose sight to them. 

Awwरत : Menstruation Matters!

 Why don’t we call menstruation by its name?  Menstruation surely opened up a discussion which for long time was kept discreet and hush-hush...